tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1441371284201298316.post6348693832619864087..comments2023-09-08T06:59:39.734-07:00Comments on Sissy Coleens Training: Life: Does Intimacy Matter?Coleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00125803972028256226noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1441371284201298316.post-86088189499350998292013-12-27T22:44:21.860-08:002013-12-27T22:44:21.860-08:00Unknown,
Thank you for your support and your words...Unknown,<br />Thank you for your support and your words.<br />You're right that there are intimacies in everyday life, especially when you've shared with each other for over 17 years. <br />I think my troubles come from the fact that I want my flatmate to be happy if I meet someone, not threatened by it. She says she reacted badly to my internet relationship as it caught her by surprise as she didn't know I was talking to anyone.<br />I'll try to keep her updated next time in the hope she'll share my joy.Coleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00125803972028256226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1441371284201298316.post-28190552585174370342013-12-27T22:33:20.612-08:002013-12-27T22:33:20.612-08:00Kaaren,
Thank you so much for your reply. I'm ...Kaaren,<br />Thank you so much for your reply. I'm sorry that i've only just seen it.<br />Big hugs to you too my dear. I'm nearly in tears here (must be those allergies :) ).<br />If you've read my latest blog, you'll see i'm trying to make some changes and get out there. Hopefully by the end on 2014, i'll be feeling more positive<br /><br />Love you sweetie. Behind your blog that never fails to excite me is your heart of pure gold.<br /><br />Thank- you so muchColeenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00125803972028256226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1441371284201298316.post-82715925319887412292013-12-27T13:59:41.736-08:002013-12-27T13:59:41.736-08:00*soft sigh*
Just to be clear, I am in no way a psy...*soft sigh*<br />Just to be clear, I am in no way a psychiatrist, psychotherapist, or counselor in any way and my advice has no further basis than My own meandering bumbles as I stumble through life, further the only thing I seem to be completely capable of achieving with My heart is breaking it.<br />That being said, the nigh immortal bard once wrote “this above all; to thine own self be true.” And with that in mind this is my humble advice to you.<br />The heart wants what the heart wants there is no arguing, reasoning or even justifying it, and at the end of every day you have only yourself to answer to. If you are unhappy in the situation you find yourself in change it, broken hearts heal, sometimes on their own, sometimes with the help of another. There are small intimacies in every day, in every relationship, if this is not enough for you than you need to find what makes you happy, because there is no greater thing in this world than love. TLSCP<br />Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11848720531205363628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1441371284201298316.post-92070300364541817372013-12-25T00:41:05.931-08:002013-12-25T00:41:05.931-08:00Yes Coleen intimacy matters and it sounds like you...Yes Coleen intimacy matters and it sounds like you have some right under your nose! Intimacy is a friend you can share thoughts with and apparently yo and your housemate share that at least.<br />Please stop looking in the mirror and saying "no one would ever". Physical attraction is superficial and fleeting, real intimacy goees far beyond that! You sound like a lovely thoughtful caring person and I'm sure there are many many women and maybe men too depending on your desires that would love to get to know you. <br />You have to put yourself out there in the world. Sometimes you'll get hurt, there are no guarantees there but it seems to me that are lots of superficial people in the world and you're better off without them!<br />There are many ways to meet people but I think if you project a happy and caring personality people will respond in kind.<br />I hope that the world sees the sweet Coleen that I see through your posts and I wish you so much love and hope for a Happy Christmas and a wonderful New Year!<br />If I was there I'd give you a hug!<br /><br />Love<br />KaarenMrs. Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03159006037679291862noreply@blogger.com